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  • May 7, 2020

Hugs Not Walls: Reunification of Families on the South Border

Hashtag used by the organizers of the event placed right in the river wall | Courtesy of Border Network for Human Rights
Hashtag used by the organizers of the event placed right in the river wall | Courtesy of Border Network for Human Rights
Eliane Castorena

Eliane Castorena

Today is the day. Today is the day you are finally going to see your parents for the first time in years. Even if it is for only three minutes or four, you know that that is enough time to hug them and tell them how much you love and miss them. That is the case for many families living in border towns like El Paso, Texas. Border Network for Human Rights, a non-profit organization in El Paso, started an event that made this possible for many people living in surrounding areas.

When President Trump took office in 2017, he reversed many, if not all, of President Obama’s executive orders on immigration. He used his executive powers to end immigration policies like DACA and DAPA. He also ordered the Department of Justice and the Department of Homeland Security to detain undocumented immigrants.1 Trump issued the renewal of the Secure Communities program, which increased the backlogs in deportation hearings, making it more difficult for undocumented immigrants to move forward in their process to obtain a green card.2 Three years ago, in January, President Trump doubled down on his promise to build a wall along the southern border by signing an executive order, which created a lot of anxiety and uncertainty for many living in border towns.3

The Border Network for Human Rights (BNHR), took it upon themselves to try to ease some of the anxiety that families from the border face every day. The annual event Hugs not Walls brings families together from the United States and Mexico that have not seen each other in a long time due to the broken immigration system.4 The event of thousands of people is “an event of humanity and love,” stated the executive director of BNHR, Fernando Garcia. “This primary goal is to bring together those families that have been separated, but it’s important to say that also it is an act of protest – because we need to bring attention to those families that have been in detention, deported and separated of their family members.”5 Technically, no one is breaking the law here because no one is crossing either side of the border; they are staying right in the middle of the river, which has no water running and has only dirt and mud, without giving each other anything.

“Debora” reunited with her family members | Courtesy of ABC news

A twenty-four-year old woman, who gave the name “Debora” due to confidentiality because she and her family came to the United States undocumented, has not seen her sister Gloria in a decade, since she was caught by border police and deported. Gloria also has a now fifteen-year-old daughter that made it to the U.S., but has not seen her since. The sisters only live seven miles away from each other, but the U.S.-Mexico border is the obstacle that keeps them from seeing each other. Debora states that it is truly tough knowing that it is just a fence across the street that keeps her away from her family.6 Ruby Almaraz drove from Colorado Springs, Colorado, to have a chance to see and hug her father for the first time in twenty-three years, since he was deported when she was only a baby. Ruby drove twelve hours along with her mother, sister, and her seven-year-old daughter, so her father can meet his granddaughter for the first time.7 The Jaimes family from Las Cruces, New Mexico, traveled to El Paso to reunite with their grandparents. The Jaimes’ elders were deported two years prior to the event and now their grandchildren get to see them once every six months, which has been really rough for them, since they were all very close. The deportation really tore them apart, stated one of the grandchildren.8

Families finally reunite with each other at border | Courtesy of ABC news

The much anticipated day had arrived. Families waited in line along the river to meet with their family members across the border. Those members on the Mexican side were wearing the white t-shirts given to them and those on the U.S. side were wearing the blue t-shirts. Debora, along with other family members, embraced her sister, aunts, and uncles as tears flowed down their faces and for those four minutes, her family was complete again.9 Ruby finally embraced her father across the yellow caution tape that was used to signify the border line. They barely had enough time to say they missed each other and that they wish that one day they’ll be all together again.10 The Jaimes’ grandmother was overwhelmed with happiness and sobbed as she hugged her grandchildren. “This is something big, something I never thought would happen,” said Grandma Jaimes speaking in Spanish. “I am very grateful to the people involved who allowed us to do this and give each other a hug.”11

Border Patrol agent monitors the family members at the border event | Courtesy of Los Angeles Times

Due to the building of the wall along the border, the event was forced to be moved to a dirt road several miles to the northwest from its previous location in 2018. Garcia stated that this was more symbolic than ever because these families are overcoming these walls, by hugging.12 This only goes to show how President Trump’s policies are affecting negatively these communities and their people. The border wall and recent policy proposals focused on the border are not long-term solutions. They are a symbol of our country’s failure to resolve the issue of undocumented immigration, that could be dealt with by a comprehensive immigration reform.13

  1. Michael C. LeMay, Immigration Reform: A Reference Handbook (Santa Barbara: ABC-CLIO, 2019), 80. ↵
  2. Michael C. LeMay, Immigration Reform: A Reference Handbook (Santa Barbara: ABC-CLIO, 2019), 81. ↵
  3. Michelle Kessel, Robert Zepeda, and Lauren Effron, “Families separated by US-Mexico border embrace in emotional ‘hugs not walls’ 4-minute reunions,” February 2017, ABC News Online (website), https://abcnews.go.com/US/families-separated-us-mexico-border-embrace-emotional-hugs/story?id=45205124. ↵
  4. “HUGS NOT WALLS,” Border Network for Human Rights (website), https://bnhr.org/hugs-not-walls-stories-of-family-reunification/. ↵
  5. Michelle Kessel, Robert Zepeda, and Lauren Effron, “Families separated by US-Mexico border embrace in emotional ‘hugs not walls’ 4-minute reunions,” February 2017, ABC News Online (website), https://abcnews.go.com/US/families-separated-us-mexico-border-embrace-emotional-hugs/story?id=45205124. ↵
  6. Michelle Kessel, Robert Zepeda, and Lauren Effron, “Families separated by US-Mexico border embrace in emotional ‘hugs not walls’ 4-minute reunions,” February 2017, ABC News Online (website), https://abcnews.go.com/US/families-separated-us-mexico-border-embrace-emotional-hugs/story?id=45205124. ↵
  7. Brittny Mejia, “Organizers call for ‘Hugs Not Walls,’ even as they are displaced by the border wall construction,” Los Angeles Times Online (website), October 13, 2018, https://www.latimes.com/nation/la-na-texas-families-wall-20181013-story.html. ↵
  8. Ray Bogan, “Hugs Not Walls: Families divided by the U.S.-Mexico border get 4 minutes to reunite,” November 2016, Fox News Online (website), https://www.foxnews.com/world/hugs-not-walls-families-divided-by-the-u-s-mexico-border-get-4-minutes-to-reunite. ↵
  9. Michelle Kessel, Robert Zepeda, and Lauren Effron, “Families separated by US-Mexico border embrace in emotional ‘hugs not walls’ 4-minute reunions,” February 2017, ABC News Online (website), https://abcnews.go.com/US/families-separated-us-mexico-border-embrace-emotional-hugs/story?id=45205124. ↵
  10. Brittny Mejia, “Organizers call for ‘Hugs Not Walls,’ even as they are displaced by the border wall construction,” Los Angeles Times Online (website), October 13, 2018, https://www.latimes.com/nation/la-na-texas-families-wall-20181013-story.html. ↵
  11. Ray Bogan, “Hugs Not Walls: Families divided by the U.S.-Mexico border get 4 minutes to reunite,” November 2016, Fox News Online (website), https://www.foxnews.com/world/hugs-not-walls-families-divided-by-the-u-s-mexico-border-get-4-minutes-to-reunite. ↵
  12. Brittny Mejia, “Organizers call for ‘Hugs Not Walls,’ even as they are displaced by the border wall construction,” Los Angeles Times Online (website), October 13, 2018, https://www.latimes.com/nation/la-na-texas-families-wall-20181013-story.html. ↵
  13. The Impacts of Trump Policies on Border Communities : Hearing before the Subcommittee on Border Security, Facilitation, and Operations of the Committee on Homeland Security, House of Representatives, One Hundred Sixteenth Congress, First Session, April 30, 2019. 2019. U.S. Government Publishing Office, https://www.hsdl.org/?view&did=829004, 14. ↵

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  1. Janaya Felder
    Janaya Felder 19 Oct 2020 Reply

    This article packed a lot of emotion considering it’s length. It’s so hard to see so many families being torn apart because of Trump’s policies. I could never imagine being apart from my family the way so many Mexican immigrants are. It’s so touching to see the hope everyone has as they reunite, even if it’s only for a moment.

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    Donte Joseph 11 Oct 2020 Reply

    Such an amazing article that details an event that while it was short, was very emotional and impactful. I hate how people lean on politics in a way that tears families apart without realizing the effect it has on them. I believe that if people could try to understand why people are trying to escape, and the effect that they have on families by keeping them separated, they would be able to understand why this is such a big deal.

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    Alexandria Garcia 6 Oct 2020 Reply

    Its very heartbreaking to risk your life and risk not seeing family to come to across boarders for a better life. I think there’s a lot that needs to be done on both the US and Mexico side to allow reformation for the immigration policies. Even North and South Korea have a program where people who are not citizens of the other state can visit family for a couple hours or days. Its even sadder that people on both sides (dem and republican) cant agree to REFORM the immigration system for the simple reason of there are people who genuinely need a new start to life and the United States is that new start.

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    Victor Rodriguez 30 Sep 2020 Reply

    Being from El Paso, Texas, a city that borders with Mexico, hearing about this story is just devastating. I think that it is very unfortunate and cold-hearted to see these families to suffer this kind of way. This country was built from immigrants and putting a wall is not a solution for the immigration problem we have, Many of these individuals and families are in search of better opportunities. I understand that there are some immigrants that do not have good intentions and that do bring good things. That is why we must have better immigration policies that detect which immigrants we should let in. However, I do believe that separating families this way is just inhumane. We should have more compassion and kindness. Many of these families need assistance and a better opportunity. I can imagine how special it was to hug your family members.

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    Camille Kwan 13 Sep 2020 Reply

    I had no clue that trump took away the implicated executive orders by Obama. Your example about the sisters who lived seven miles away but could not visit was truly heartbreaking. I feel that we as American citizens are truly sheltered from these stories that show the trump administration in a whole new light. It also makes me worry for the future of our country. With the up coming elections, I feel a little more informed about our presidential candidate. Amazing article!

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    Maria Obregon 11 Sep 2020 Reply

    What a beautiful event this is! It makes me very happy to know that these people were able to reunite with their families, even if it was only for a short amount of time. While it makes me very happy, it also makes me sad. That is because that short amount of time is all they had to be able to physically touch and be with their family members, who are separated by a wall.

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    James Davis 6 Sep 2020 Reply

    Wow, what a touching and beautiful thing. I can only imagine the feelings of not seeing someone for so long and finally being able to just look at them in person. To hug them, to hold them, even for just mere minutes can be beautiful and touching. However; it is not enough. It is such a shame that all of that information is backlogged which is making it harder to receive a green card. It makes me so sad to know how hard it is to come into the country which was founded on immigrants. This once great melting pot has become divided by hate.

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    Angela Perez 6 Sep 2020 Reply

    This article highlights such a pure event that reunites family for three minutes. The attached trailer video was so heartbreaking yet full of hope that one day they would all be reunited. Coming from a border region, I have personally seen the tearing apart of families that the wall has done. The testimonies add to this article by giving a name to the situation. Once you meet someone who has been deported for simply wanting a better and safer life, your whole perspective changes.

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    Jakob Trevino 5 Sep 2020 Reply

    It is sad to say that these families are going through a tough process that separates themselves from each other because of politics. I have no idea why Trump has this clean idea that by building a wall it will suffice the amount of “bad immigrants” that come to the United States. He is blind in the idea that most of these families are escaping violence in their own country and want the chance at a better life. By reversing some of the policies Obama had put into place, he is sending back immigrants who might end up killed or injured because of their escaping or refuge.

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